The School of Life (EBook, The School of Life) 5 stars

Emotional intelligence affects every aspect of the way we live, from romantic to professional relationships, …

The good child isn't good because, by a quirk of nature, they simply have no inclination to be anything else. They are good because they have been granted no other option, because the more transgressive part of what they are cannot be tolerated. Their goodness springs from necessity rather than choice?

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I relate to this a bit too intensely.