Polysecure

Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

288 pages

English language

Published Feb. 18, 2020 by Thorntree Press, LLC.

ISBN:
978-1-944934-98-9
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Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you’re striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner? Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. Polysecure is both a trailblazing theoretical treatise and a practical guide.

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treasure

extremely valuable book for me. even though it is primarily meant for people in hierarchical polyamory, i found it applicable for myself, being solo poly and practicing relationship anarchy with a partner. i think that it is even helpful for people in monogamous relationships and singles, as it also discusses being in a secure relationship with oneself. the structure was very clear and i found every part of the book helpful and easy to understand. it was a good mixture of theoretical explanations and practical tips. there were many pointers to other works for further reading. i will definitely buy this in print to consult it whenever i want/need to work on my attachment issues.

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