p. 333: "'Stop looking for the next secret door that is going to lead you to your real life. Stop waiting. This is it: there's nothing ele. it's here, and you'd better decide to enjoy it or you're going to be miserable wherever you go, for the resto of your life, forever.'
'You can't just decide to be happy.'
'No, you can't. But you can sure as hell decide to miserable. Is that what you want?'"