djwfyi commented on Love Your Enemies by Brooks, Arthur C.
In chapter 1, it is practice gratitude rather than contempt. In chapter 2, it is act nice to others, even we you don't feel like it. While action follows feelings, feelings also follow actions. So feed in good actions and good feelings result.
I think both of these suggestions have great merit for regular life and are very much worth putting into practice, hard as they are.