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Emotional intelligence affects every aspect of the way we live, from romantic to professional relationships, …

Gratitude is a mood that grows with age. It is extremely rare to delight in flowers or a quiet evening at home, a cup of tea or a walk in the woods when one is under twenty-two. There are so many larger, grander things to be concerned about: romantic love, career fulfillment, and political change. However, it is rare to be left entirely indifferent by smaller things in time. Gradually, almost all one's earlier, larger aspirations take a hit, perhaps a very large hit. One encounters some of the intractable problems of intimate relationships

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Such a red flag that I feel I was experiencing this as a teen. More concerned about gratitude than just living a normal life.